Its not wrong when women want it and it is not wrong when men want it either. Focusing on a person's looks can cause you to overlook flaws in their character. It became so painful and such hard work for me to maintain the relationship, I felt I was working in a Gulag. While you want to communicate your feelings clearly, you should do so in a polite and respectful way. As Evan says, that inevitably fades anyway. It was a real crisis for him, an awful dilemma, because they were perfect together otherwise, but he felt this stood in the way of his physical attraction to her. Be straightforward.
That is what Mia needs to define…is it that the poor slouch needs to polish himself up a bit and get another groove going, or is she really just disgusted with the features that he cannot change?
Is It OK To Date Someone You're Not Attracted To?
Search for: Ah, if it were only that simple…. My boyfriend did not have to say out loud that there was a lack of physical and sexual attraction. I feel wounded. Everyone with a libido has specific features of others they do not want to look at.